To Manifest Your Soulmate:
First Change Your Mind About Love
Manifest Your Soulmate after
you change your attitude about love.
Most single women who want to be in a couple
but find themselves alone can solve the
problem with a change of mind. Make a new
decision.
To support you in changing
your mind, I invite
you to take the Self Inventory Questionnaire
below and start the
journey to your soulmate which can
happen so quickly you will wonder why
you ever put it off.
Let's begin with the past and ask
you to remember the relationship tips
that your adult role models showed you
from the way they behaved toward
one another.
As a small child you were
like a sponge soaking up information
from what you observed about how to love.
However, as a small child you might not
have really understood what you were
seeing and you might have made an
assumption that was based on a
limited perception made from your
immature point of view.
Single Woman:Check Out the Mature Way to Love
Take the the time to examine assumptions
that you made as a child... and decide if it's time to let go of
beliefs that worked for a little
girl, but not for a mature single woman.
The following questions gently
guide you to explore your true
beliefs about yourself in an
intimate partnership.
It is important
to side-step the natural tendency of your mind
to edit your responses.
You simply
read the question and answer it as
quickly as possible. That way you
don't allow your mind to edit or
revise your truest and first answer.
The Self Inventory Questionnaire
1. Choose one adult to use
for this question. When there was a conflict between
your guardians or parents, you noticed that
you identified most with your mother,
father, or other guardian.
(Remember if
you come from a single parent
home or a home with no parent,
simply choose a fictional character
with whom you identified with most.)
2. List some of the most irritating things
that the adult with whom you identified most did.
3. List some of the most pleasing things
that the adultwith
whom you identified most did.
4. Now choose three partners who you
dated the longest;
write each of their names at the top of a different column. List some of the most irritating things that each of your
former dates did.
5. Choose the same three partners who
you dated the longest;write each of their names at the top of a different column and
list separately for each one of them
some things that each
one did that pleased you most.
6. Summarize the things that the partner who pleased you had in common.Then summarize the irritating things that your dates did most frequently. Which parent do these characteristics remind you of? You have just begun the process of discovering what
you really prefer in a relationship.
It's a wonderful beginning but there are many other steps
to get your clearest relationship vision possible
so you can manifest your soulmate in record time!
Check out the resources on this site
to help you get very clear on your relationship vision.
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